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SNL 
10/18/18

Place: Richardson

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Don't worry Ronney, I fixed the spelling, you're good. It was a heartfelt sentiment that I'm sure many of us are feeling.

Paul - You are so right!  My heart is breaking and it's made me very sad to think how difficult it must be for Karen and their children and grandchildren.  The only thing I know to do is pray.

Paul S 
10/17/18

Place: OK

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I think this is one of the toughest parts of us all aging. We manage to cope with our own frailties and “parts failures,” but it is so difficult to helplessly watch others face such difficulties. Still praying.

Ronney McKee Email
10/17/18

Place: Allen, Texas

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Reading this note from Odis' daughter breaks my heart. Cannot help but get watery eyed trying to imagine such a vibrant, positive man like Odis is now so sick. It literally breaks my heart. As was written in the note, he does not have much longer to live. And, that is a positive and negative. The negative is seeing him suffer. The positive is that the suffering won't last long. 
Odis was a positive influence for all of us in school. Was wonderful seeing a big guy like Odis who was so kind and gentle to everyone. Just hope Odis realizes that we all love him dearly. Cannot imagine future class get-togethers without him. But, will be praying for his comfort and the comfort of his family. They have so many reasons to be proud of being in Odis' family and the rest of us for being his friend. WE LOVE YOU, ODIS. WE LOVE YOU VERY MUCH! AND WE ALWAYS WILL. You have left a lasting positive impression on each and every one of us. And, we are proud to have you in our list of friends. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, ODIS MY FRIEND!

SNL 
10/17/18

Place: Updates on Odis McLean

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I sent Andrea & Heidi my email so I could get updates from them, they are Odis & Karen's daughters.

The message below is a little long but if you will read it you'll understand how grave this is for Odis and his family.  Please note, today, 10-17, they are getting Odis set up on Hospice Home Health Care because it didn't happen Monday.  They have requested No Visitors today.  But they welcome all visitors starting 10-18 from 1 to 7 each day. God Bless this family as I know this is over whelming and very difficult.

October 14th: Hello,  

This is Heidi Mercer, the youngest...  writing on behalf of my mom.  After the talk with the oncologist on Friday, we were told it is now days (although we can hope for weeks) due to how aggressive this particular cancer is. Our focus has now turned to pain management with a goal of getting him to come home to be more comfortable.  This goal will be achieved tomorrow if everything falls in line with home hospice care. 

We are beyond grateful for the prayers that we have had. We truly can feel them... 

He has been up down, up down, up down every handful of minutes. However, doing it on his own is not an option so it takes one, sometimes two people to help him each time. This has become tiring on us, especially his sweet son, Jason, who has been taking the majority of the night duties. We were approved for a hospital patient sitter who actually went to the same high school as Odis and immediately bonded with our family. This has lifted a huge burden off our shoulders of worry.

Odis has highs and lows, ins and outs. ... and honestly, so do we. To think, at this time last week we had not even been told it is cancer, blows my mind.  And two weeks ago, everything was totally normal. This has taken his body so quickly and with that comes blessings and curses. Curse that it happens so quickly and unexpected but blessings that he isn't going to have to suffer like mom and Odis' first spouses did. Blessings that they had truly AMAZING MOMENTS that were not fabricated.

We are going to enjoy him now with the few days we have left... as much as we can. Since he will be getting set-up with hospice at the house tomorrow, we would appreciate not having visitors since our focus for Monday is getting him home and settled and he will be spending time in the evening with Andrea, his daughter. Thursday going forward, the family welcomes visitors 1-7pm.   Again, the prayers are incredible and have helped keep us going so far in this whirlwind we have been in. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

Richard Nance 
10/17/18

Place: California

Comments:
Well, that is just too sad.  Sorry to read that Odis is going through this.

SNL 
10/16/18

Place: Odis (Mac) McLean updte

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The below message was posted yesterday (10-15-18) on FB by Andrea McLean Becker, Odis' dtr.   I have no words, only prayers. God be with Odis & Karen and their children & grandchildren.  If you are friends with Odis or Karen you should be able to see the messages the two dtrs are posting..

Update: Odis is coming home today with hospice to settle in. For those who would like to visit in his last few days, they are welcoming visitors for the next couple days starting tomorrow between 1-7.

If you would like further details, please send me your email address and I will email you the updates of this short journey. Thank you for your prayers; we have felt each one.

Karen Melton Davis 
10/15/18

Place: Galveston

Comments:
So sorry about Odis but I will pray for his healing and especially his comfort as he and his family face this battle.

Carolyn Evans Martin 
10/14/18

Place: Sugar Land

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Sad news about Odis. I’ve known him since grade school. Praying for healing and comfort. Peace for family.

Ronney McKee Email
10/14/18

Place: Allen, TX

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So very sorry to hear about Otis. Always sad to hear bad news about our class members. Hope and pray for his comfort at this time. Praying for you, Otis.

Janice Scallorn Email
10/13/18

Place: Plano

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My heart goes out to Odis and family.  Praying for Odis especially, Karen and all family, friends.

Sandy - Your eyes will be 100% soon!

Janice

Gary Dagley. 
10/13/18

Place: Mansfield Tx

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We are praying for Odis.

Richard Nance 
10/13/18

Place: California

Comments:
That's a tough read on Odis.  Known him since about the 3rd grade, I'd say.  I hope he does well.  He seems to have carved out quite the life-style for himself and his family.

Paul S 
10/13/18

Place: OK

Comments:
Same here

AAHW Email
10/13/18

Place: NH

Comments:
Odis is in my prayers.

SNL 
10/13/18

Place: Sad News

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This is not a message I want to post.  Heidi got in touch with me (she is Odis (Mac) McLean's step dtr & Karen's dtr) to say her step-day Odis McLean has been in the hospital since last week. He has been diagnosed with cancer that has spread to his liver.  Right now the liver cancer is what's shutting him down.  She went on to say that if they can't get his liver to start functioning he only has a few days. If it can start to function he may have a few months.

PLEASE think of Odis & Karen & their families and say prayers for his survival.  God Bless the McLean Family.
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